I posted a photo on IG Stories of the Barbary I’m putting together, and got a ton of comments about how fancy I am. It’s true that I am bougie AF, but it’s not true that a bar cart has to be anything complicated. When I got home a little over a week ago, my… Read More Stocking a Home Bar (Cart)
Or at least, The Plan for the next several weeks. I have left my super rewarding and super intense assignment in Malabo, where I spent the last nine months without my family. I’m now in Virginia with my spouse and children in our tiny but awesome house in our tiny but awesome neighborhood. I have… Read More A real quick update on The Theresa Life Plan
I returned to the US for a a week for Christmas, and it turns out, also the New Year, and also, I don’t have a fixed return date. The extra time with my family as an unexpected gift (and I am grateful!), but it is still stressful. So that’s how 2021 is starting. Happy New… Read More In which the future is uncertain, but possibly bright
The good news is that lots of people read yesterday’s pity party post about how I miss my family (don’t go looking for it, I put it back into draft mode so I can reflect on it for a few days). The bad news is that some of those folks who read it are my… Read More In which I appreciate the opportunity for professional development
I am back in Malabo. I volunteered to come back. So here I am. My spouse and kids are in the US. It’s heartbreaking for me now, and I miss them, but I suspect that we’ll settle into a “new normal” relatively soon. A few observations from the last few months: Full productivity with the… Read More Back in Malabo. Ish.
We have so much going on right now, and all of that pales in comparison to the work folks are doing in the United States and elsewhere to fight racial injustice and police brutality. I am tired. But not nearly as tired as my Black family, friends, and colleagues. Black Lives Matter. That is all.
Malabo feels like one of the last places on earth not to be touched by COVID-19. But of course, despite the small number of positive cases here, life has dramatically changed, not just for expats who are watching the news from home with horror and concern, but for Guineanos whose livelihoods will be permanently affected… Read More Life in the time of Coronavirus
OMG y’all. One of the web apps I use every day for my job stopped working in Chrome over the summer (mysteriously, unsolvably, and only for me). It is now working in Chrome again. These days, it’s the small things. “Girl boss” can die in a fire. My male colleagues are not hashtag boy bosses.… Read More Things I like on and off the Internet #3
I expected this article about what a bad idea it is to bring your whole self to work to be about how your coworkers do not GAF about your weird habits, your neuroses, and your medical problems. They care about you showing up, bring a professional, and doing your fucking job. My colleagues (and this… Read More Stuff I like on and off the Internet #2
On December 31, 2020, I will be healthier than I am now, physically, emotionally, intellectually, and financially. That’s it. That’s my New Year’s resolution. Happy 2020!